在這段充滿愛意的時刻，我們不僅要準(zhǔn)備一束花，還要為未來的幸福做好準(zhǔn)備。以下是美國著名專家精心挑選的十五個問題，這些問題關(guān)系到你與我共同創(chuàng)造的未來世界，所以我們必須認(rèn)真聆聽，深思熟慮地回答每一個問題。
婚前必答之問1：我們是否愿意成為父母？如果答案是肯定的，那么孩子的撫養(yǎng)權(quán)應(yīng)該如何分配？
婚前必答之問2：我們的職業(yè)規(guī)劃和財務(wù)目標(biāo)相符嗎？我們的消費(fèi)觀念和儲蓄習(xí)慣是否會引發(fā)沖突？
婚前必答之問3：我們?nèi)绾尉S護(hù)家庭和諧？誰將負(fù)責(zé)處理可能出現(xiàn)的問題？
婚前必答之問4：我們已經(jīng)詳細(xì)交流過雙方的健康狀況，包括心理健康嗎？
婚前必答之問5：我們的父母對我們有沒有達(dá)到預(yù)期的支持，他們是否能給予足夠的心理祝福？如果他們不能，我們將如何面對這種情況？
婚前必答之問6：我們已經(jīng)坦誠地討論了自己的性需求、偏好以及恐懼嗎？
婚前必答之問7：臥室里能放置電視機(jī)嗎？這個小事也是夫妻間溝通的一部分。
marriage must answer the question 8: Can we truly listen to each other and treat each other's thoughts and complaints fairly?
marriage must answer the question 9: Do we have a clear understanding of each other's spiritual needs and beliefs? Have we discussed how to educate our future children and their religious upbringing?
marriage must answer the question 10: Do we like and respect each other's friends?
marriage must answer the question 11: Can we appreciate and respect our partner's parents? Have we considered that they may interfere with our relationship?
marriage must answer the question 12: What is one thing about my family that bothers you most?
marriage must answer the question 13: What are some things that will never make us give up on our marriage?
marriage must answer the question14: If one of us needs to leave their hometown to accompany another person in a different city for work, can we do it together?
marriage must answer the last but not least15th Question : Are you confident in facing any challenges head-on, ensuring your marriage continues to move forward towards happiness.
If you've already thought through these questions or have similar ideas, congratulations! You're ready for your next step towards happiness. But if there are significant disagreements or unanswered questions, perhaps it would be wise to slow down before making such an important decision.
